“When people are unkind and, as you say, hardboiled, My Dear Ones, I know it is not easy; but I say to you, you can have an Armor – an Armor of Flame about you, which burns it up and really never let it register within you. You can turn away from the condition and call the Archangel Michael or the Mighty Astrea into action to consume it. You can call the “I AM That I AM” Decree into action to handle all discord! You can form the habit of calling instantly for the complete annihilation of everything discordant ever imposed upon energy and substance – and substance is really condensed energy. So, when you say “energy”, you can say “substance” too, if you like; but all substance is energy condensed.
It is a marvelous feeling to be able to move among distressing conditions and hold the Peace within yourselves which is the Great Forgiveness in the use of the Sacred Fire, the Blue Lightning, the Violet Flame, the Cosmic Light-Substance – and flood It forth in whatever intensity is necessary to burn away the discordant quality, to redeem that energy, qualify it with God’s Perfection of the Universe, and command it to fulfill the Divine Plan.
If you seem to lack the feeling of Power of Forgiveness, We can help you! Our Love forgives very readily! We have no desire to hold any feeling against anybody or anything in the Universe, except to burn away that which is discordant. We can give and flood God’s Perfection of the Sacred Fire into every wrong condition. We have no trouble forgiving, and you should not have!
My Dear Ones, the hard feelings that are held within individuals, sometimes in families for a whole lifetime, produce such illness and unhappiness! Those things carry over into the next lifetime; and they build again and again and again, because the individuals who are frightfully antagonistic to each other are bound by cords of energy in that frightful feeling, and they will come back in family relationships again, again, and again until one or the other dissolves that frightful quality, by rising out of it through Divine Love.
Therefore, you do need Ascended Master Qualities! You do need the Radiation from the Ascended Masters, to make it easier for you to forgive the imperfections of Life, which you see everywhere about you!” – Beloved Mighty Victory
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